12.29.2010

Oil and Water ?

I swear if I see one more tweet or hear anyone else say social networks ruin relationships ima BLOW. People always trying to put the blame elsewhere. If your relationship is REALLY that frail that a few tweets/fb post are the demise of your whole shit then yall dont need to be together in the first place. I dont know about yall but when it comes to this issue, a few things come to mind:

1. Both counterparts should know what is and isnt appropriate whether its text, bbm, twitter, fb chat, WHATEVER...point blank! So dont blame an app or website entirely on why "shit didnt work"

2. For the most part social networks are just that...social networks. Theyre made to be used for social reasons therefore niggas will be social and he/she just needs to grow up and get over it.

3.  Do yall KNOW how yall be sounding ? Someone ask why yall broke up you begin your sentence with oh because on facebook or on twitter..etc...shit just sound dumb.  

4. People need to realize everything isnt for everybody. Yes its human to vent and express ourselves but theres a line...If you werent so busy tweeting or posting about yalls issues ALL the time..others wouldnt think they had a chance with you or your significant other. Never forget someone is ALWAYS waiting to take your spot.

At the end of the day, Im not letting a social network or anything along those lines destroy something I took the time to build...I cant go out like that. Yes, Im aware situations do arise because of twitter and  w.e but trust, im deading the situation then moving on in my relationship. #NEXT